Basic Life Rules Applied to the Time of Coronavirus

In March, it began to become clear that the novel coronavirus was going to hit our shores. It was going to cause major disruption. I felt pretty overwhelmed as I contemplated the changes that might take place. Eventually, I started applying the basic rules of life that I have applied to other difficulties. It made a difference. Over time, I was able to adjust and keep going with less anxiety. But people, including me, continue to struggle. So, I find myself needing to go back to my basic life rules in order to keep moving forward in joy and service.

Here are nine rules that I have applied to this time to help me live well. I continue to need them, and so I thought it would be useful for me, and hopefully to others, to reproduce what I wrote back in March.

  1. Don’t take responsibility for things you can’t change. You can’t solve every problem in the world. Let go of as much as you can.
  2. Do take responsibility in your area of responsibility. What are the things that am I most directly responsible for such as loving my wife, caring for my children, being a good neighbor, and being a good church member? Focus on these things. Continue reading “Basic Life Rules Applied to the Time of Coronavirus”

10 Quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson to Help You Live Well

For Halloween this year, my wife decided that I would be Waldo from the Where’s Waldo? series of books. I decided to tell people that I was dressing up as Ralph Waldo Emerson. I thought, I could tell them that I was Ralph Waldo Emerson and then quote him. So, I went to Google and searched for “quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson.” I was astonished! There was wonderful and helpful quote after wonderful and helpful quote.

Now, I didn’t tell many people that I was Ralph Waldo Emerson, and I didn’t remember any of the quotes. What I realized, though, was that I needed to read. I have now read several of his essays, but I love his book The Conduct of Life. Emerson provides so much solid advice for thinking about life well and living well. Here are ten quotes from this book that will help you think and live well.

These quotes are taken from Emerson: Essays and Lectures. You can read this book online here.

1. “To me, however, the question of the times resolved itself into a practical question of the conduct of life. How shall I live? We are incompetent to solve the times” (943). Focus on living well and what you have power over, don’t swamp your brain with worries about the big issues you can’t control.

2. “The first wealth is health. Sickness is poor-spirited, and cannot serve any one; it must husband its own resources to live. But health or fulness (sic) answers its own ends, and has to spare, runs over, and inundates the neighborhoods and creeks of other men’s necessities” (972). If we are not healthy, we cannot push forward. If we are healthy, our life will flow over in blessings to others.

3. “[I]n our flowing affairs a decision must be made,—the best, if you can; but any is better than none. There are twenty ways of going to a point, and one is the shortest; but set out at once on one” (983). Try to do something significant. Don’t get paralyzed by trying to figure out what the exact best is. Continue reading “10 Quotes from Ralph Waldo Emerson to Help You Live Well”